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Order of Man

"Toxic Masculinity” Stereotypes | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Order of Man

Ryan Michler

Business, Health, Leadership, Relationships, Man, Society & Culture, Intellect, Style, Lifestyle, Money, Selfdevelopment, Wealth, Fitness, Selfhelp, Nutrition

4.89K Ratings

🗓️ 8 November 2024

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Ryan Michler believes traditional masculinity isn’t inherently toxic; it’s simply misunderstood. In this episode, he unravels the complexities surrounding toxic masculinity, challenging the myths that paint masculinity as harmful. Drawing on a pivotal 2019 study by the American Psychological Association, Ryan highlights the critical need for a balanced understanding of masculinity’s role in society, emphasizing that traditional masculine traits—when constructively channeled—can bring comfort, security, and innovation. 

Ryan’s discussion explores men and women as complementary forces, underscoring the indispensable contributions of men to societal progress. He delves into “righteous aggression,” a principle that advocates for assertive yet patient action against wrongdoing. By clarifying misconceptions around stoicism, he shows that it’s about emotional regulation rather than suppression, fostering resilience and enhancing communication.

Through personal stories, Ryan demonstrates the power of true masculinity in protection, provision, and leadership. He calls on men to be role models who redefine masculinity by embodying strength through positive actions, helping create a culture where authentic masculinity is celebrated and visible.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:40) Addressing Toxic Masculinity Misconceptions
(16:36) The Principles of Righteous Aggression
(29:56) Embodying True Masculinity Through Example

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Transcript

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0:00.0

When you see something wrong, you better aggressively stand up against that bullshit.

0:04.5

When you see somebody doing something to somebody else that they shouldn't be doing,

0:08.3

you should be capable and willing of being aggressive in your response to subdue a threat

0:15.1

and make the world a better place.

0:17.3

It's about being righteous.

0:19.1

I would argue that unrighteous aggressiveness could potentially be toxic,

0:23.6

but the American Psychological Association doesn't make the distinction.

0:27.6

They just say aggressiveness is toxic.

0:30.6

You're a man of action.

0:32.6

You live life to the fullest.

0:34.6

Embrace your fears and boldly chart your own path.

0:37.7

When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time.

0:42.2

You are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong.

0:47.2

This is your life.

0:48.3

This is who you are.

0:49.7

This is who you will become.

0:51.5

At the end of the day, and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man.

0:57.0

Men, I think it's time that we start talking about toxic masculinity.

1:01.0

And I want to be very clear.

1:03.0

It's not because I believe that toxic masculinity is worthy of talking about.

1:08.0

It's because so many people do believe that it's worthy of talking about.

1:11.9

I want to be very clear when I say this that I don't believe masculinity is toxic.

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