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Am I the Jerk?

Toxic Friends RUIN MY LIFE by spreading FALSE RUMORS... so I GET REVENGE by RETURNING THE FAVOR

Am I the Jerk?

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Relationships, Society & Culture

4.83.2K Ratings

🗓️ 24 March 2026

⏱️ 24 minutes

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0:00.0

My toxic entitled friend starts spreading false rumors about me in a way that is seriously damaging to my reputation.

0:06.5

So I decided to get some revenge by quite literally ruining their lives in a way that they truly will never recover from.

0:12.3

Here's what happened.

0:13.2

So me and one of my best friends have been friends for nearly a decade.

0:16.9

For reference, I'm a 22-year-old male and he's a 21-year-old male.

0:20.1

We both share the same group of friends at a venue we both attended. But most of them were closer to him and had known him for longer than they had known me. We had, prior to this, revenge, had a disagreement with him claiming I had lied about something, which he wouldn't even tell me about, as well as me calling him out for being constantly hours late whenever I arranged to

0:37.8

spend time with him, and me finding out that he was leaving me out of group hangouts secretly.

0:42.0

Now, I found out that after our argument, he went around the venue spreading rumors, and

0:46.3

mind you, he could not find a scrap of evidence of anything.

0:49.5

So I asked the staff of the venue that we attended to ask him to stop.

0:53.1

But forgetting they were close

0:54.4

friends of his, they made up excuses which they refused to tell me and banned me from the venue.

0:59.3

And it was at this moment that my revenge began. First, I got in contact with a lawyer who drafted

1:03.9

and sent him a cease and desist notice. He initially responded to accuse me of faking the letter,

1:09.0

but was then sent a side email copy and asked by

1:12.0

the lawyer to advise to his position, at which point he left my lawyer unread. And it was on the next

1:17.1

day that I found out he was still spreading rumors. So, unknown to him at the time, I took screenshots

1:22.3

of years' worth of text messages and was given the phone number for the department of fraud.

1:26.7

As it turns out,

1:27.6

I had collected information about him taking study assistant payments for an entire year while

1:32.4

not attending class. This alone could mean that he has to pay back $10,000 plus dollars on top of

1:37.7

a substantial fine as well as possible prison time. Secondly, I had text messages from him using,

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