When you see immodesty in church, it could be a positive sign, a sign that new believers are being added.

Here's pastor's wife, Holly Aleph.

If we're a growing body, we're always going to have believers at different levels of maturity.

And so we need to teach our kids to allow for that, even in the youth group, which is tough,

but to allow for those differences, not changing their own beliefs,

but being thankful to the Lord for what they've already been taught.

This is Revive Our Hearts with Nancy Lee DeMoss.

It's Thursday, June 22nd.

Over the last couple of weeks, we've learned a lot about modesty.

Nancy's taught about developing a modest heart, and over the last couple of days, we got really practical about how that kind of heart can be reflected in our wardrobes.

Nancy's friend Holly Ellick has a lot of insight in this area, as a mother of eight and a pastor's wife.

Let's join Nancy and Holly's practical discussion in our series, The Attractive Christian Woman.

We asked you to write questions that relate to modesty and clothing issues, and we want to address a few of those.

One lady asks, can you help me understand how we as Christian women can be attractive and desirable to our husbands without being inappropriately attractive and desirable to other men?

Holly, you're a married woman.

Help us out on this.

It's a good thing.

Actually, I had a conversation over lunch with Lori about this, and we were kind of talking

about that whole issue, and just how do we remain attractive and pleasing to our husbands

without also attracting other men?

And I think one thing that's important to do is to go to your husband and say to him, what do you really enjoy me wearing? Are there some things you just like?

Do you like me better in long skirts, in shorter skirts, in jeans and a sweater. You know, what are his favorite things?

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