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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Touch in Therapy, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation, and Teen Incontinence

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 8 September 2025

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Bobcast! Patron emails!

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.

00:00 When is physical touch in therapy OK?  
18:19 'Zoey' OPP
20:36 Is transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) a treatment for ADHD?
28:36 'Margaret' OPP 
30:08 Can trauma cause incontinence? 

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September 8, 2025

The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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0:00.0

So, Bob, we have some emails here.

0:01.8

This first one is about touch in therapy. Shall we go over it? Let's do it. This is the Psychology in Seattle podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Kirkana. I'm a therapist and a professor. Who are you, Bob? I'm surprised we're doing this. My name's Bob. I'm your good friend from graduate school from 100 years ago and a therapist here in practice in

0:21.0

Seattle.

0:21.5

That's right.

0:22.6

Anonymous listener, she says, hello Kirk and Bob.

0:25.4

I have a question regarding physical touch in therapy.

0:28.4

I'm 25 years old and I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, by the way.

0:33.1

I've been seeing my current therapist for over a year now.

0:36.8

And over time, we've been able

0:39.9

to build a trusting and safe relationship.

0:42.3

Okay, I've been seeing my current therapist for over a year now, and we have a good relationship.

0:46.7

We have a very close therapeutic bond, and it's new to me.

0:52.7

I still often struggle with intense feelings of shame and sometimes

0:55.9

fear, but I'm now able to talk more and open up. I have strong, warm feelings towards my

1:01.9

therapist and eventually gathered the courage to tell him about these feelings. We've talked about

1:07.1

transference and also discovered that for me, feelings of love are closely linked

1:11.6

with shame and guilt. When I feel that way, I sometimes long for comfort and want to hug him.

1:18.7

For the past few sessions, we've occasionally sat next to each other, and he has held me for a while

1:23.6

and gently stroked my arm or shoulder.

1:32.4

The past few sessions, we've occasionally sat next to each other and he has held me for a while and gently stroked my arm or shoulder.

1:35.7

Okay, I'm trying to envision that.

1:37.6

A while, what is that?

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