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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Ethics, Triangulation, and Child Pressure

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 5 September 2025

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.

00:00 Would it be unethical for Dr. Kirk's past therapists to listen to PIS?
09:03 What about past clients?
13:40 What's the difference between venting and triangulation? 
25:56 Is Dr. Kirk exasperated? 
31:16 Establishing an independent identity outside of competition 

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September 5, 2025

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0:00.0

Hey, Deserving listeners, I thought I would answer some of your patron emails.

0:05.1

This email is from annual long-term anonymous patron.

0:10.0

She says, would it be unethical for your past therapists to listen to your podcast?

0:17.1

Thanks, EOE, or end of email.

0:20.3

So the question is, would it be unethical for your past

0:24.4

therapists to listen to your podcast, to my podcast? Well, at first, reading this question, I think

0:31.6

it's a typo that you meant past clients. But if I were to answer this as it's written, which is also possible,

0:40.4

the key here is that we must understand what ethics are trying to get at, which is harm.

0:47.5

The ethical codes are there to prevent harm and to give us a guide regarding managing the risk of harm.

0:57.0

Because a lot of things in therapy do risk harm to the clients, but we have to balance

1:05.0

that with the justification to do so.

1:08.6

Like if we enter into PTSD treatment of any sort with a client, there is a risk of harm. But it is

1:16.5

justified, usually, you know, case-by-case basis by the fact that the research shows that the treatment

1:23.9

models that have been researched to work work if used by a competent therapist

1:31.2

most of the time there's tremendous benefits so there is a justification to risking that harm

1:39.2

now obviously if there's just not only risk but actual harm harm of a client, then that's a whole other story.

1:47.3

But typically when we're thinking about ethical codes, ethical decision-making questions on the internet about, is this ethical or not, usually we're in that limbo zone of possible harm, risk of harm.

2:00.6

So, for example, when I am given presentations

2:08.0

on this podcast or as a professor or in workshops or something, and I provide a case example,

2:16.0

there is a risk of harm. I could harm the client that I'm talking about

2:20.0

because I could break confidentiality. I could represent the profession in a bad way and cause

2:29.2

people to not want to go to therapy, that sort of thing. But when it comes to the justifications of providing a

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