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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Violet Benson

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4.84.1K Ratings

🗓️ 14 September 2025

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to the narcissist playbook


Think you’ve never dated a narcissist? Think again. From love bombing to gaslighting to the classic “I’m sorry you feel that way” non-apology—these are the Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play that’ll have you questioning your reality, your group chat, and maybe even your sanity.


On today's episode, Violetta is breaking down their playbook, exposing every trick, and telling you exactly how to spot the BS before it wrecks your self-esteem. If you’ve ever left a date wondering if you’re crazy… spoiler: you’re not. He’s just a narcissist.

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0:00.0

Dude, she's just a friend. You're so insecure. You're overreacting. Why can you just let it go?

0:09.5

Dude, it's like I can't do anything right. You're so dramatic. Look how you're acting. You sound crazy.

0:18.0

You know, all my friends told me that I could do so much better than you, and yet I

0:21.7

stayed with you. Stupid me, huh? No, I didn't call you a bitch. I say you were acting like one.

0:28.2

You're so lucky that I love you because no one else is going to put up with all of your issues.

0:33.3

Just because your night is ruined doesn't mean you have to ruin mine. And scene, did that feel

0:38.7

familiar? That that trigger you? Well, then this episode is for you. It's Bila Benson,

0:44.7

your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for, but see, welcome to almost

0:50.9

adulting. Almost adulting.

0:56.8

Are you ready?

1:02.0

Have you ever dealt with someone that made you question your whole reality?

1:02.9

What was real?

1:03.6

What was not?

1:08.8

Maybe even it's gone as far as you feeling like you need to record what's happening.

1:13.8

Record your conversations with this person so then you can play it back to yourself or to them so you don't feel like you've gone completely mad.

1:16.4

If you're nodding your head to any of the above, then congratulations.

1:20.6

You are being gaslit by a narcissist or someone with narcissistic traits or high narcissistic tendencies. And one thing about narcissists or someone with narcissistic traits or high narcissistic tendencies.

1:28.8

And one thing about narcissists or someone with narcissistic tendencies is that they are always

1:34.2

the victim, we're the hero, but never the villain.

1:38.3

Hi Vassiz.

1:39.1

And welcome to a brand new, almost, adulting, the largest self-lop podcast and movement.

1:43.7

Your number one destination, personal growth, love everything in between.

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