Stop right now before you go into your next relationship or if you're in one right now, if you want to save yourself a lot of grief and a lot of heartache, I want you to know right away.

There are three signs that are going to let you know if somebody is emotionally immature.

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All right, let's get down to it. There's nothing worse than being around somebody or being with

somebody who is emotionally immature. They can't handle these emotions. If you're thinking of somebody

right now, it comes to mind, just nod your head with me. Nod your head. Mm-hmm. Yep. I know somebody exactly like this. I'm going to give you some signs that's going to

make it very clear to you that this person is not only lacking in emotional intelligence,

emotional depth, they are lacking in emotional maturity,

and that is a big red flag for you.

Are you ready?

Number one, they have an argument in all the wrong places.

They have no problem causing a scene wherever they go.

That is a problem.

If you're at dinner with somebody and they start an argument and all of a sudden

you're like, okay, well, we can talk about this later. And they're like, no, we're going to talk about this right now. In fact, I'm going to be so loud that everybody needs to know, everybody needs to know how you're treating me and all of a sudden they're playing the victim and you're going, wait, wait, can we please not do this right now? Or the type of people that get in arguments in the line at the grocery store or at dinner

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