Top 12 Hoovering Tactics of a Toxic Narcissist - Q&A With Alisa Stamps LCSW

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 24 December 2021

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Brandon talks with Alisa Stamps (LCSW) about the Top 12 Hoovering Tactics of a Toxic Narcissist & Narcissistic Abuse. Plus they discuss, threats, self harm, love bombing, future faking, faith based abuse, and much more. Alisa's website can be found at https://www.alisastamps.com/ Thank you to our sponsor HELLOFRESH. Go to HelloFresh.com/nap14 and use code nap14 for up to 14 free meals AND 3 free gifts! Enjoy America’s #1 Meal Kit today! Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Thank you to our sponsor Tru Niagen. Tru Niagen is a supplement that’s clinically proven to boost N-A-D levels, an essential coenzyme required for cellular energy and repair. Add more vitality to your life today, with Tru Niagen. Right now, new customers can save 10% on their first purchase by going to https://TruNiagen.com/nap and use code nap. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Join our Tiktok at https://www.tiktok.com/@narcissistapocalypse If you want to be a guest on our show, go to https://narcissistapocalypse.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.1	On this episode of a narcissist apocalypse Q&A, we talk with licensed clinical social worker, Elisa Stamps, about the top 12
0:40.1	hoovering tactics of a toxic narcissist.
1:08.0	Music Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, everyone.
1:17.5	With me today, I have Alisa Stamps. How are you? I am good. How are you? Thanks for having me.
1:25.0	Well, I'm great. Thank you for being here. And for those that don't know you, you are a licensed clinical social worker. You do therapy for adult children of narcissists and for
1:30.1	people who have disordered eating. You are the author of the Gaslighting Recovery Journal and you run
1:36.4	virtual support groups worldwide. So thank you for being here. And today we are going to talk about the top 12 hoovering tactics of a narcissist, what you can do about it, you know, when these things are going on.
1:55.5	And we may have, you know, an extra one for you on top of that if you have some kids.
2:03.6	So anyway, thank you for being here. And let's get to it in the first, the first tactic we have up here on our list, the reminiscent
2:11.5	sentimental Hoover. Yes. Yes. I feel like we're doing, you know how David Letterman used to do like the top 10, whatever. I feel like that's what we're kind of doing here.
2:22.5	The top 10 lists where everything on the list was actually probably the best joke. And then number one was always like the worst one on purpose.
2:33.4	We'll try and not do that here.
2:35.7	Right.
2:36.2	I was going to say these aren't really jokes.
2:38.6	No.
2:39.4	It's actually kind of sad.
2:41.3	Sad.
2:42.2	Yeah.
2:43.4	Yeah.
2:44.0	So the sentimental reminiscent Hoover, right?
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