Too Opinionated: Abuse in the PCA, Part 2
Sons of Patriarchy
Peter Bell & Sarah Bader
4.2 • 649 Ratings
🗓️ 20 February 2025
⏱️ 106 minutes
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In this episode I spoke with Colleen McConnell, former member of St. Paul's Presbyterian Church (PCA) in Orlando, Florida, and Megan Owen, founder of Mountain City Christian Counseling, who was formerly counseled by Jim Wilson, Doug Wilson's late father.
Colleen's story shares similarities with every story we have profiled save one difference, she won her case in the PCA. So we look into when women "win," what that means for their relationship with the church and its leadership, as well as their marriages (or former marriages). Megan (and her family) were horrifically abused by her ex-husband, and you'll hear what kind of counsel came from the mouth of Jim, which then starts making more sense of Doug. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Because for these men and leaders, a woman who's too opinionated needs to be put her in place.
Below them.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Sons of Patriarchy. |
| 0:02.7 | Before we dive into today's episode, we want to take a moment to provide a content warning. |
| 0:07.9 | In this episode, we'll be discussing sensitive topics, including emotional, spiritual, and sexual abuse. |
| 0:14.7 | We understand that these subjects can be triggering for many listeners. |
| 0:18.6 | If you find yourself feeling uncomfortable or need to take a break, |
| 0:21.9 | please feel free to pause or skip to a later segment. Your well-being is our top priority. |
| 0:28.6 | We encourage you to reach out for support if you need it. There are resources available to help you |
| 0:34.0 | through difficult times, and those can be found in our show notes and intake forms |
| 0:37.9 | to private support communities, which are screened. |
| 0:41.1 | In today's episode, we'd like to extend a special shout-out to advocacy from the Presbyterian |
| 0:46.6 | Pew, dedicated to helping lay people in the PCA to understand PCA church government and process, |
| 0:53.3 | and to follow PCA business, |
| 0:55.7 | especially related to caring for victims of abuse. |
| 0:59.1 | A link to their group is in our show notes. |
| 1:02.6 | One more shout-out for Mountain City Christian Counseling, |
| 1:05.6 | founded by Megan Owen, pastoral counselor, |
| 1:08.6 | has been helping women heal from abusive marriages, systems, and churches |
| 1:12.9 | for four years now. After running a nonprofit for single mothers leaving abuse for seven years, |
| 1:20.2 | Megan decided it was time to open her own practice and reach a wider audience with her modalities |
| 1:25.2 | of EMDR and spiritual processing groups. |
| 1:29.6 | A link to Mountain City will be in our show notes, as well as an upcoming retreat Megan is hosting |
| 1:35.2 | in July for those navigating these issues. |
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