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You know recently there was someone who wanted to marry another person and they were when many years back the family's got together

And so someone sends me an email to say you know my dad is saying no

What's the problem? Well, you know there's a ten thousand dollar outstanding that that man owes my dad and there's a

Descrepancy a brother for ten thousand dollars. You messed up a beautiful relation

Wow, akbar and you know what your son is not going to agree with any other woman

So if you really wanted that you should have engaged in the life of your child such that you helped him grow up

So that from the beginning when his decisions were about to be made he would have involved you in it

The problem with us my brothers and sisters

We do not involve in the lives of our children until where it suits us

So then we say right you are not going to marry this person

But where were you when I had a problem you were gone?

You were not even there these people helped me this is what happened and so on and today

I've made my mind up dad too late

Lahu Akbar and then we suffer in the home the best thing for you to do go back to Allah

Subhanahu wa Ta'ala cry we repent to Allah we are the ones who are wrong the way we brought up our children means

modification Allah Akbar