Too Healed to Hoe
Good Moms Bad Choices
The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts
4.9 • 2.1K Ratings
🗓️ 7 January 2026
⏱️ 71 minutes
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Summary
Happy New Year Tribe,
Erica and Milah are happy to be back but are easing into the new year! The ladies chat about Milah's bachelorette party and how she's "retiring" from lesbianism (for now), insecurity vs. preference, UN-learning saving people, and why sometimes you just want snacks and molly water lol.
In this episode, you can expect to hear:
- Why January doesn’t need to be about grinding, optimizing, or reinventing yourself and how slowing down can actually be the most aligned choice
- Are mirrors, selfies, and self surveillance aging us faster?
- How Milah and Orlando are going to celebrate their Bachelor/ Bachelorette
- What it means to be “too healed to hoe,” and how sexual freedom can evolve without shame
- Letting go of the savior complex and learning that not everyone is yours to rescue
- Why guilt shows up when you rest and how to release it without explaining yourself
- Trusting your body, intuition, and nervous system over social pressure and internet noise
This is your reminder to honor who you are now, not who you think you’re supposed to be.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an IHeart podcast. |
| 0:02.5 | Guaranteed Human. |
| 0:04.5 | Once upon a time, there was a good old traditional housewife. |
| 0:08.0 | She cooked. |
| 0:08.7 | She cleaned, cared for her children in the man of the house. |
| 0:11.8 | And of course, she didn't talk back. |
| 0:14.2 | She was both obedient and soft by nature. |
| 0:16.7 | She was a good woman who always made good choices. |
| 0:20.0 | Come on. |
| 0:20.5 | Shut that shit off. |
| 0:21.8 | We're good moms bad choices. |
| 0:23.2 | Two single moms who said fuck the patriarchy. |
| 0:25.4 | Sheared all their bad choices. |
| 0:26.7 | And sound out they weren't so bad after all. |
| 0:28.4 | We're experts, overshares, and your new besties. |
| 0:31.0 | Sit back and enjoy the ride. |
| 0:37.0 | Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. |
| 0:39.0 | I'm Meele. |
| 0:41.0 | Sorry. |
| 0:42.7 | Did I do it wrong? |
| 0:43.9 | No. |
| 0:45.7 | Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. |
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