If you want to get a woman and hypergamy is true, now what?

She shouldn't have big body count.

Why? Is it an ego thing?

Are you worried that they've seen so many penises that they're going to judge yours and think it's small?

The strategy you're running is extremely dangerous.

This sounds like bullshit.

This sounds like PR.

What would a guy have to do to be irresistible to a woman?

Somebody that is driven and ambitious, but they don't need money attached to it.

But I am not interested, personally. There's zero judgment.

I'm not interested in someone who wants to sit on a couch and watch TV all day, smoke weed, get drunk, and they're not do anything. That isn't interesting to me. So that isn't the person that I would look for, but ambition drive as sexy as hell. So if I find it sexy as hell, I don't need the money that comes with it, but the fact that you're driven, the fact that you really want to accomplish something is attractive to me so I would look that. Now, you're probably going to go to height, which I know is something that you talk about, of like, women care about height. I'm five foot one, so it hasn't really been much of a problem for me, but I absolutely love that you're tall. Now, this is zero judgment on guys that are shorter. And what I mean by that is it's not, it isn't the only thing that is attractive, right? If you were tall and all your other attributes really freaking sucks and there was a guy that was a five foot one and he had all these other attributes, I would go for the five foot one guy, just to be very clear. But I'm attracted to the fact that you're tall because I do love it when you wrap your

arms around me and if my feet hurt, you carry me on your back. The amount of times I've fallen asleep

in the car on the way back from a club, you carry me into bed. I love chivalry. I love that you're a

powerful, strong man. That doesn't make me weaker. And this message that is going out there where it has to be one or the other, I think is bullshit. And I think that as a woman, I can be damn powerful. I can be confident. I can't be pushed around. I can set strong boundaries. I can stand up for myself. And at the same time, I can absolutely say, I want you to lead this family. I love seeing you sit at the head of the table. I love it when you carry me. I love it when you hug me and wrap your arms around me because I feel safe. I love it that if someone broke in, I would look at you to go and save me. All of that is still true. And the message out there right now is it has to be one or the other. You have to either be a bad fucking bitch who can take care of herself. I don't need a man. Or you have to be the super freaking submissive woman that never speaks her mind, that doesn't have an Instagram page, that doesn't sleep with other guys. Like, it's one or the freaking other. Can I get her number real hard? Just in case something happens to you. Yes. I'm kidding. Yeah, I know you are. So that's how I feel. And that's, I think where we're getting so trapped is that it has to be one or the other. And the truth is it freaking doesn't. But you have to discuss it because it wouldn't work in our relationship if we never

discussed it. And I think that I'm leading or I think, oh, no, no, we both lead. It's equal. I don't think that would work. And so I just take the blinders off to say, what's going to work in a relationship? You need one leader. It's like a company. You can't have two CEOs. If you have two CEOs with the same skill sets, one of you is obsolete, period.

So just like in a relationship, if you're both trying to follow or dance, you don't have both people leading in a dance.

You always have one person leading. So knowing all of that, I have zero problem with you leading.

I want you to lead. So I can hold, going back to something I keep saying, I can hold the two competing ideas. And it's actually not even competing. I'm going to take that back. It actually complements. And once upon a time, I thought if I wanted to be confident, then that would mean that it would diminish you. If I wanted to stand up for myself, that that would make you less of a man, that if I want to feel powerful, that that's going to make you less powerful. And that's all bullshit. Would you date somebody working the line at McDonald's? Are they ambitious? Are they driven? They want to take it over. They want to own McDonald's one day. And they love it and they're happy. They are miserable, but they're really going hard. Like they're really working at it.

You just said they're miserable. I'm not interested in someone that's just sits in their misery.

Okay. So he gets ruled out because he's miserable. All right. He steps out. A new guy steps in.

Still at McDonald's though. He also wants to run McDonald's. He's happy. A new guy steps in. Still at McDonald's, though.

He also wants to run McDonald's.

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