Knowing what you know now, Vincent, at your, at the right bold age of 35 or whatever you are, should you have children?

Would you do it differently?

I, well, I know, because I know them and love them with all my heart.

And I swear, therein lies the problem.

I swear to you, there's a piece of every

person without a kid that lies dormant and so you say to yourself I'm good and you are good

you absolutely are you are 100% fine because you haven't made that thing you love the most of all the

things even though it's a huge pain in the ass and i will also add that while i've heard some people say the minute they laid eyes on that joy yeah they were changed for i didn't think those people lie i don't know but i didn't feel that immediately do you think we expect to it? And that's why it's so disappointing when it doesn't happen right off the bat.

Like I fully expected to be like, look at a baby and be like, oh my God, my flesh and blood.

I understand why I live and breathe.

Right.

I didn't feel that.

But I will tell you that there's both seeing this person day after day, this baby, but person, and growing with them.

They do get their hooks in you.

And it, it, that does grow to a point where you could never go back.

Or I should say, I could never go back.

And that's, and there it is.

There are people that do go get some

milk and cigarettes and never come home. It's astounding. I don't know how, but I, I get that the

sacrifice becomes, well, there's, there's a lot of sacrifice. Yeah. And I think there are some people

who are so selfish, and I'm selfish, selfish but not that selfish but even if the marriage

fell apart the kids you still would want to you're not leaving for cigarettes no you know and then

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