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serious xm triumph 111. Alyssa welcome to the program. Hi Dr Laura. Hi. How are you? What can I help you with? Good, what's up? Good. So I'm getting married in May and I wanted to ask for your help because I'm kind of in a predicament. My brother is dating this girl that I don't necessarily like and the reason

I don't like her is because she was lying about me to our church that we go to.

We go to the same church.

And, you know, take off that.

Tell me more about that lying to your church tell me what is the

content of that she was going around telling people that I was a liar that I would do X Y and Z to my brother.

Nobody gave me specifics from what I was told

what she was saying about me.

And then it also got back to the pastor that I was a horrible person and things like that and she talked to him and then I talked to him and he told me basically that what was said about me he hasn't seen me do it so he's not going to make a judgment based off of what somebody else.

Yeah, okay, gutless. So what did he, what did she say you did? What did you lie about?

She didn't say specifically, she just said that I was a liar and

that I was a horrible person and basically that's all that I heard that she was saying about me. I don't know what else. It could have been more. It could have been less.

I'm sorry, this sounds very vague and odd that she would walk around a church and just say bad things about you.

You believe that?

Well, from what I was told because I did talk to my brother about it, he told me that he was the one that was telling her a bunch of things about me

so she started he was telling her and then she was going around the church and

telling people whatever he was saying to her.

So what do you mean go around a church?

How actually physically does she do that?

She told her mom, and her mom.

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