You're on the virtue. She's 23 years old and she has her first boyfriend

So she's feeling a little insecure that maybe dude is doing something online that's not appropriate

And she would love our health to see if this guy is messing around or not says dear virtue

I need some help. I'm lowkey freaking out right now

Never emailed you guys before so I hope you read this

I'm 23 and I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He is my first ever boyfriend

We're so happy for you. I really like him. I think you could say that I love him

I mean we've already said it to each other even after just a few months

Well, I kind of think he may be talking to other people online

I'm not really sure if he is and I don't know what is okay and what isn't okay for him to be doing

I don't have any real proof

But I see him texting or DMing with people on his phone a lot

I ask him about it and try to be kind of joky about it

So he doesn't think on the jealous type keeps telling me that I'm just being paranoid

But I don't know if he's telling the truth

I'm not sure if this is something that happens in relationships or not like I'm pretty new to this whole thing

So maybe it's normal, but if it's not I don't want to be with a guy who's talking to other girls behind my back

And it's shady AF. So if he's doing what I think I'm not sure if this counts as cheating or not

I mean he's not actually doing anything physical with them. She says I know because he's pretty much with me or at work all the time

So I guess I want to know for sure if you're talking to other girls and I'd like to know if every guy does this to some degree

Where do you draw the line from Taylor?

So actually on a recent episode my podcast the breakup breakdown we were laughing about how the girl I was interviewing

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