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Amala Ekpunobi

TikTok HATED Her Dating Advice, But Does She Have a Point?

Amala Ekpunobi

Amala Ekpunobi

Education

4.22.7K Ratings

🗓️ 27 June 2023

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

TikTokers are going absolutely ballistic in response to a woman’s dating advice on how women can make themselves more attractive to men by doing certain things that “men love.” Is she reinforcing old sexist stereotypes by suggesting women should want to carry themselves in a way that appeals to men, or does she have a point? Let’s watch and react.


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0:00.0

They love when we have like, purses and accessories on like men love when you look healthy and youthful.

0:06.0

Men love when your toes are done to let me tell you.

0:10.0

A young girl is making waves on TikTok and getting a ton of feminist rebuttals after making a video where she details what she thinks men are attracted to when looking at women.

0:19.0

Let's talk about it.

0:21.0

Guys, before we get into this viral video, please like and subscribe if you want as many people to find this channel as possible so you know what to do.

0:31.0

Now, let's watch this video titled Things Men Love aesthetically about women but won't say.

0:36.0

I'm going to tell you something about men because I think our girls don't understand this.

0:40.0

No matter how tomboy you think you are and how laid back and cool you are, this is what men love.

0:45.0

And men, if you're watching this, please confirm in the comments.

0:49.0

I love when you look healthy and youthful and hydrated.

0:53.0

Your hair done, it's shiny, you look beautiful and I love it.

0:57.0

Now this is actually a surprising thing. Men love like lip gloss and girly stuff. Like you're not a girl.

1:03.0

But they love like pink nail polish or clear polish, like something that's light and subtle and so feminine they love it.

1:09.0

Okay, a couple things that here.

1:10.0

So she's talking about being beautiful and hydrated and youthful.

1:14.0

That is something that we should be striving for regardless of where you're at in life, who you're trying to attract.

1:20.0

That's just something that if you love yourself and love your body, you will do for yourself.

1:25.0

I think you're going to see a lot of people get upset about the fact she's saying that men love this and men want to see this and men are attracted to this certain aesthetic.

1:33.0

I don't know their name. I've seen them for so far.

1:36.0

She hasn't made any prescription of this is what you have to do as a woman or this is what all women should be doing on a daily basis.

1:43.0

I think she's just saying if you want the attention of men, this is something to do.

1:47.0

Now men, if you're listening or watching right now, I'm not sure about the whole lip gloss thing that she just said in the painted nails.

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