Hello and welcome to Thruples counseling. What is Thruples counseling? Thruples counseling is where we try to answer questions submitted by you, the slake haters. We are not licensed. We do not have any degrees or accreditations as well actually Kim does. Well, look, even so, I'm just all I've got is my wise counsel. You don't start the show by telling people why you shouldn't be doing the show, Jerry? I do. That's not how you do his show. I want to be honest. I don't know. Full disclosure. Look, if you like listening to us as much as we like talking, then Thruple's counseling might be for you. Yeah. It's just a little fun mini episode. But people will send us their... Oh yeah. No, people are sending us legit questions. That's why I just want to be clear. Like, we don't know what we... Yeah, we can give you our advice from our lives. Well, this is a good one because this one comes from Sonia Thomas. Hey, Sonia. Or Sonia Tomas.

She's Portuguese.

She says, hi, Thruple of my heart.

Oh.

I am your number one Portuguese fan.

I hope you can help me out with an issue regarding friendship.

And since you're each other's best friends, I think you could best suited to help me out here.

She says, 18 months ago, I lost my best friend.

I lost him because of what happened, potentially a huge misunderstanding,

but I'm having a hard time coping with everything that happened specifically with his absence. So what happened was, she says, my husband and I were on vacation with him, her friend, and his husband.

And as it has happened many times before, they go on vacation all the time.

We have a great connection, similar senses of humor, our friendship with her friend is like 30 years old.

And the husbands actually showed up only 20 years ago so her

friendship predates their husbands their respective husbands okay on that vacation everything

changed her friend's husband was not in a good place for months psychologically and was

at this point making scenes out of nothing he was reluctant on getting any help and was at this point making scenes out of nothing.

He was reluctant on getting any help and was always picking on everyone and everything,

being very rude and very snobbish.

And she says, my husband is a little more hot-headed than me

and was starting to consider his behavior annoying and disrespectful.

So one night, the three of them, her friend, her friend's husband, and her husband

went out to dinner.

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