Hi my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

I think growth is very important.

Everyone grows at different speeds, and they grow differently.

So whereas therapy has been very impactful for you, for someone else it might be something something

something right there's many paths doing something right and I think that people

grow at different speeds and I do think that you have to love

someone as though they would never change. Though the funny thing is we want

everyone to sort of grow to evolve you know because some people will say they'll go on like, you know, a retreat or do

Iowasker or do something and be like, oh my God, like all of this, you know, and the other

person's like, whoa, and then that doesn't mean that the other person is not growing

no matter how much work we do on ourselves we're gonna be triggered and that inner child is

gonna come out screaming you know we're gonna have to apologize I mean being in a relationship

means that you have to know how to forgive and forgive often because oftentimes we

will make mistakes with the person we love and we didn't even realize that we were doing that.

I mean how many times have you hurt someone's feelings and that was not your intention.

The problem is that most people enter couples therapy when it's too late.

When there's just too many problems and too many things to unpack.

I mean, yes, it can work, you know, it can help, but if you can do this stuff preemptively,

it's huge.

Anything to prevent resentment, anything,

you know, to foster honest conversations,

you're gonna win, even if you end up breaking up, you're going to win. Even if you end up breaking up, you're going to still win,

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