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Thomas Talks About Coming Out. Twice.

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Erica Heilman / Rumble Strip

Places & Travel, Personal Journals, Society & Culture

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 20 July 2018

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Thomas talks about growing up with autism, and growing into his life as a gay man.

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0:00.0

Welcome to Rumble Strip, I'm Erica Heilman.

0:02.0

So I went down to a conference in Birmingham, Alabama, and I ended up, I mean this man,

0:08.0

I mean this man, and I remember that we touched hands by accident.

0:14.8

Tched hands by accident.

0:17.8

And then all of a sudden I started blushing and crying.

0:19.8

Like, oh my God, I love this.

0:25.0

And it was a sign.

0:27.0

That's Thomas Caswell.

0:30.0

He has autism, which doesn't tell you very much about him.

0:34.8

I mean, if you told him your birthday and how old you were, he could tell you what day of

0:38.8

the week you were born, but that also doesn't tell you very much about who he is.

0:43.0

autism doesn't describe a person.

0:46.0

If you've met one person with autism,

0:48.0

then you've met one person with autism.

0:51.0

But over the last couple of years in his early 20s, Thomas has been coming out of the

0:55.8

closet in stages. And along with the pretty common difficulties of coming out, there are some

1:01.5

special difficulties if you're a person with a disability.

1:05.3

Here's Thomas.

1:07.3

Autism is a spectrum.

1:09.6

Nobody on the autism spectrum is the same. Some are not able to talk that much. Some flap

1:18.9

their hands physically like this. Some jump up and down some anxiety makes them stutter or something that happens to me

1:28.6

it's funny because when when I first got here you were pulling up on your bike and I was pulling up in my car

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