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Thank you, nephew. Subject, this young man has me weak in the knees.

Dear Stephen Shirley, I am a 63-year-old black woman, and I've never been married, and I don't have any children.

I was raised to believe that sex outside of marriage was wrong, so I didn't have sex until I was 32 years old.

It was never that exciting to me, so I did not put much effort into having a great sex life.

I always met and dated great guys, but they would all tell me that I had no passion or promise in the bedroom.

For that same reason, I have never had an orgasm until this year.

I met a 42-year-old man, and we hit it off. I didn't think I'd fall for him, so I'd never

told him my age or my sexual history. The first time we were intimate, he didn't care how

inexperienced I was. He did all of the work and I had several out-of-body experiences with him.

I can honestly say that I have been missing out on something magical.

I could not get enough of this man, but there's just one little problem.

I'm ashamed of him.

He's a thug and he owns a barbershop, so he is always in jeans and a hoodie or t-shirt.

I can usually hear his music before he

pulls up in my driveway. My neighbors have seen him come and go, and I know it looks strange that

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