Let's go, go, buckle up, hold on tight, we got it for you. Here it is, the strawberry letter, everybody.

Subject, this man has a thing for chocolate, huh? Here we go.

Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a divorced

58 year old black woman dating a 61 year old white man

that I met on a dating site for black people. I thought it was strange that he was on the site that is for blacks, but I guess he likes what he likes. Well, this man fell head over heels for me on the first date. He got up and

kissed me at least four times that night while we were at dinner. Well since then he sends me text throughout the day at least 10 a day to tell me he's thinking about me and he misses me

We go out on dates twice a week and we've had and we have sex at least once a week and he's great in bed

So this man is a dream come true right well I got a few problems with him and I need your advice. I have only

known this man for a month and he told me that he loves me and he's been shopping

for an engagement ring. He wants to get married by

2020. The other problem is since we started having sex he now likes to refer to me as his black or

chocolate everything I went from being a hot babe to a

he now refers to me as his beautiful black girlfriend when we own dates and it's

getting on my nerves. I will have to have a conversation with him in due time but I need to

make sure that I'm going to stay with him first. He was on a dating site for

black singles but he says I'm the first black woman he has dated. So my question is am I

trying to create a problem where one does not exist? Is it possible that this man

did fall in love at first sight and he's just happy to be in

relationship with a black queen please give it to me straight.

She'll we.

Well my queen here we go it sounds like an easy fix though I mean you have to

talk to this guy and you have to you know let them know that there is an issue that you'd like to address

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