My wife and I have six adult children and I can tell you parenting is not a formula.

Each child has unique needs and desires and will go their own way in life. I'm John Fuller along with

Dr. Danny where to who heads up our parenting team and Danny how do you encourage

parents to remember there isn't a one-size-fits- all there's not a formula that works for

all children and just like that John okay there's no there's no formula there

isn't one and some people will say I wish they came up came with a guide or instructions

and we joke about that we do wish that but that there is no formula that is going

to fix issues and all that this is a transformation for you as a parent just as much as it is for your child.

There are different temperaments, different personalities, different experiences, different relationships, all of that helps perceptions be molded in a child.

And from that, their beliefs, and then their thoughts, and their emotions, and their behaviors,

that's the beauty of it.

God has created us unique as masterpieces of his

creation and we need to remember that. There's not going to be one book, but there

are a lot of books, a lot of information, a lot of things we're talking about that you can take in as you

get to know your child and combine those and begin to respond the best you can to who your child is.

Yeah, not to say there aren't some basics and fundamentals

and some good general perceptions and tools.

But we have to be dealing with each child uniquely.

Well, let's go ahead and kind of move that idea into

adulthood and talk to Brenda Garrison who faced a lot of struggles with her

daughter Katie and Brenda shares pretty honestly about the pain that many parents feel about an adult child.

Here she is now with Focus President Jim Daly.

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