Those first few years of your child's life are filled with precious moments and every parent knows

that that little one is dependent on you. I mean they're totally dependent for their well-being. How do you handle

the pressure of that? I remember there was a time early on when our oldest was crying and my

wife is like well what does he need and I looked at her said I don't know what does he need and she said I don't know what that cry means and

you can't call somebody and ask what does listen what does this cry mean so I think that's a pretty natural way a lot of us parents handle some of these pressures.

I don't know, we get kind of frozen.

Well, I'm John Fuller, an imperfect parent joined by Dr. Danny Werta.

He heads up our focus on the family parenting team and Danny

how about you and Heather what kind of things caused you to look at each other

and shrug your shoulders and say I don't know?

Yeah those fears it's so real as a parent to have fears that pop up.

I think the most frequent one is the safety, the safety of our kids from the beginning, right,

from, like you were saying, the first time you're at home, they're

getting sick, they have a fever, you start to have anxieties around that.

But then the fearfulness when they start to drive on their own when I remember being on a trip actually at the Black Canyon of the Gunnison here in Colorado

and our kids were a little younger and there's some big cliffs there.

Just seeing my kids come up to the edge, close to the edge of that.

It just takes your breath away because you don't have full control over their decision making.

And there's just that sense of... full control over their decision making.

And there's just that sense of,

I want my kids to be safe.

And it's so natural for us to want that,

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