Coming up, the real reason that you keep losing and then why so many that took part in the

great resignation are starting to have regrets will break all that down and I coach you up.

Let's go.

Helping you win at work so that you can win in your life.

Your money more meaning is the goal here on the Ken Coleman show.

So what's the real reason some of you haven't had some wins in a while?

Turns out this reason is because you're not focusing on winning, you're focusing on not losing.

I don't know if you've ever seen an athlete or a team come into a game or a match with

this mentality and they just seem tight all bound up.

Why?

We'll think about it.

If you're focusing on not allowing something bad to happen, you are naturally in a

protectionary posture.

You're tight, you're tense, you're guarding against something bad happening.

I remember when we first, you know, Stacey and I first started taking all three of the

kids out.

We had three under the age of five and I assume these, these, these things are really

fun still for kids.

But I just remember back in that time, Alex, that we were always going to these indoor

jumpy places, right?

It was in eighth or these two things still very popular.

Yes.

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