We're back! We're back! It's the distraction I'm through! That's rough! How you doing?

Rough? I'm good man. What's happening? It is today as a fist recording I have been married

20 years to my grad. It's my 20th all wedding anniversary. What's the, you know how sometimes they do

anniversaries where it's like you know your third anniversary is like yeah oh no.

Pipea Moshay you know. So what a what is 20 that sounds like that should be like a

valuable metal. I am not going to do the thing where I start it's too soon in the podcast for me

to do the thing where I google around in real time. I'm sure it's like 10 or something like that.

We, so I only bring it like a katana give her like a really well crafted sword. I only

bring it up because we we never do anything special for a wedding so I was like I said to my wife

I was like well why don't we go away and she's like well you know then we'd have to get my

parents to visit or to stay with the kids or something like that and I was like all right all right

well why don't we go out for dinner. She's like oh oh I know she's like we can take a day trip

to Annapolis and we go to Cantler. It's one of the crab houses on the water where you

bash the crabs of the hammer and all it's up. Yes. I was like yeah that's fucking great. That's

like a day like oh it's like sort of like a day trip and all that and then she was like oh but I

have work and then I was like oh I have to record a podcast and she's like all right all right let's

just go to let's just go out to lunch after you're done with the podcast and I was like all right

that's fine and so we're gonna set up we're gonna go out to lunch with we're gonna go somewhere like

different that we hadn't been before and then my son gets home from school yesterday and he's like

my throat really hurts and so my wife right now is taking him to the doctor for a culture for

strep throat so so it's like the most typical yeah like it's it is so emblematic of being married

20 years. It's one of those things where like if you read it in a short story you'd be like that's

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