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The Overwhelmed Brain
Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert
4.5 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 15 February 2026
⏱️ 40 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | These are my personal opinions. Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being. |
| 0:11.4 | Two years ago, I sent you an anonymous question for your podcast. I never asked to be born and my life feels exhausting. |
| 0:19.9 | That's what this person said in their letter. |
| 0:22.3 | They go on to say that the original message they sent said, |
| 0:26.5 | I don't understand why I should live particularly, |
| 0:29.8 | considering that being born wasn't even my choice. |
| 0:33.3 | You answered it in your episode called I didn't ask to be born and I don't want to be here. |
| 0:39.1 | What struck me most was how you were right about me in most of the episode, even though I gave you almost no info about myself. |
| 0:47.0 | At the time, I was in my first year of post-grad and felt completely empty despite achieving things externally. |
| 0:53.9 | Your response was gentle and humble and your point about taking control of my life |
| 0:57.4 | instead of feeling helpless and looking solely inward actually influenced me. |
| 1:02.5 | Even though I didn't fully realize it back then. |
| 1:06.0 | I never wrote to thank you and I wanted to do that now. |
| 1:08.4 | Your answer mattered. |
| 1:13.4 | Man, that really hit me. It made me tear up. |
| 1:22.0 | And that's the message that somebody sent to me thanking me for addressing their message or their previous message in a previous episode. And again, that's called, I didn't ask to be born and I don't want to be here. |
| 1:28.5 | You'll find it at the overwhelmed brain.com. |
| 1:30.8 | If you want to listen to that, it was a tough episode. |
| 1:34.6 | I mean, that was a very tough one to do because these are real thoughts and feelings |
| 1:41.4 | that any one of us could have at any time. |
| 1:45.3 | And I've had these thoughts and feelings in my 20s. |
| 1:49.4 | So I wanted to address it. |
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