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The Overwhelmed Brain

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The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.52K Ratings

🗓️ 15 February 2026

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

Meaning, purpose, the pursuit of happiness... Just existing shouldn't be the only way to live. You are important - you just may not realize how much.

Transcript

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0:00.0

These are my personal opinions. Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being.

0:11.4

Two years ago, I sent you an anonymous question for your podcast. I never asked to be born and my life feels exhausting.

0:19.9

That's what this person said in their letter.

0:22.3

They go on to say that the original message they sent said,

0:26.5

I don't understand why I should live particularly,

0:29.8

considering that being born wasn't even my choice.

0:33.3

You answered it in your episode called I didn't ask to be born and I don't want to be here.

0:39.1

What struck me most was how you were right about me in most of the episode, even though I gave you almost no info about myself.

0:47.0

At the time, I was in my first year of post-grad and felt completely empty despite achieving things externally.

0:53.9

Your response was gentle and humble and your point about taking control of my life

0:57.4

instead of feeling helpless and looking solely inward actually influenced me.

1:02.5

Even though I didn't fully realize it back then.

1:06.0

I never wrote to thank you and I wanted to do that now.

1:08.4

Your answer mattered.

1:13.4

Man, that really hit me. It made me tear up.

1:22.0

And that's the message that somebody sent to me thanking me for addressing their message or their previous message in a previous episode. And again, that's called, I didn't ask to be born and I don't want to be here.

1:28.5

You'll find it at the overwhelmed brain.com.

1:30.8

If you want to listen to that, it was a tough episode.

1:34.6

I mean, that was a very tough one to do because these are real thoughts and feelings

1:41.4

that any one of us could have at any time.

1:45.3

And I've had these thoughts and feelings in my 20s.

1:49.4

So I wanted to address it.

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