Our flesh is hardwired for selfishness, but Christ is really asking for selflessness.

Hope can actually mimic morphine.

Motivation drives behavior. Am I doing this because I'm motivated to serve myself?

Or am I doing this because I'm motivated by my love for my spouse. I really had to practice that capturing

every thought, that metacognition, thinking about what I'm thinking about. Dear young married couple,

what if the mind of Christ wasn't a lofty doctrine, but a few simple mental moves you can make

in the heat of a hard moment with your spouse.

Today we're joined by Garrett and Allison Robertson.

Allison holds a master's in clinical psychology from Medina University and serves as a school

psychology assistant.

Garrett earned a bachelor's in marketing management from the University of Akron.

And they are student pastors.

Both are licensed ministers.

And we love how they blend psychology and theology,

which is core to who we are here at Dear Young Mary couple. In this conversation, they walk

us through four functions of the mind of Christ that reshape how you think, choose, and show up

in marriage. Think practical shifts you can make tonight that are grounded in

scripture and backed by real stories from home and ministry. Let's jump in with Garrett and Allison

Robertson. Garrett and Allison Robertson. It's so good to have you guys on the podcast. Thank you so much

for being here. And great to be with you guys. Honored. Honored to participate. Yeah, absolutely.

Aw, well, we're looking

forward to having this conversation. You guys have studied your integrationists. You guys

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