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The World's First Podcast with Erin & Sara Foster

Things Don’t Change Until You Change Them (with Maddy Ellberger)

The World's First Podcast with Erin & Sara Foster

Dear Media | Wishbone Production

Leisure, 750325, Female Founders, Aging, Advice, Comedy, Business, Nutrition, Life Advice, Society & Culture, Infertility, Health & Fitness

4.62.6K Ratings

🗓️ 16 March 2023

⏱️ 86 minutes

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Summary

This week, Erin and Sara sit down with Maddy Ellberger, a DBT therapist. They explain what DBT therapy is and how to apply it to your daily life, discuss why it's important to focus on where you're uncomfortable, how to break patterns, and more.

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Otto. Welcome to Ellen Sarah's podcast.

0:10.0

All right. Today I'm very excited because I am newly obsessed with. I've been talking a lot

0:14.2

about DBT therapy. Talk about. Yeah. Well, it's really helped me. And so we have Dr. Maddie

0:23.1

Elberger, who is a DBT therapist for the last eight years. And she is also a professor at Columbia

0:28.8

University, if you've ever heard of it. I think you hear this and you're going to be like,

0:33.2

I don't care about DBT. I don't want to hear about this. I'm going to just skip past this episode,

0:39.1

which is how I would feel. No, I don't think that actually people are going to feel it all. They're

0:42.4

going to be like, Oh, I need a DBT episode because they aren't keep saying how it's changing

0:45.6

your life. Right. But what you don't realize, yes, is that DBT, you can use it for so many things

0:52.7

in your life that are relatable, right? Like jealousy, focusing on your very goals of me, maybe

1:00.0

your jealousy on this episode of me. I'm going to really try to be less jealous of you. It's going

1:05.3

to be hard. How will you do it? Okay. Just listen, people. Maybe Maddie helps me get past my

1:12.6

list. Okay. Without what they're going to do, I get over jealousy.

1:27.0

Hi. Hey guys. All right. I just want to start this out by saying I already feel a little bit

1:32.0

alienated just because Aaron is so immersed in DBT therapy. You're obviously an expert. People are

1:39.6

so curious about it. It feels very mysterious. I really know nothing about it. So I'm going to be

1:48.0

I'm going to be the real audience member here because this is a part of Aaron's life

1:53.2

that she's kind of kept to herself. Her DBT therapist is very also very mysterious. No,

1:57.6

I keep it to myself. I feel like I talk about it. That's how Maddie knew to reach out of it. No,

2:01.1

but I don't know. You and I don't really talk about it. I don't know. But it's like, it's changed

2:05.6

your life. It's literally made you a much easier person to be around. So I'm just excited for

2:12.8

everything. As a veiled insult. I mean, that's like the best thing I've ever heard, but like also

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