Welcome to July everyone, I wanted to start off with a little love daddy love doctor segment because you've been... What's wrong, Shalito?

No, nothing's wrong.

But I was thinking of something on the way here.

I kind of wanted your two cents on it and this and this I will preface this has

nothing to do with me I witnessed this and I thought like oh I've kind of been in this

predicament before I wonder what the podcast would have to think about this you know when your

significant other like clearly has or like clearly seems like maybe they're in a

funk or something is off and you ask them about it and they say oh it's

nothing but it clearly is something yeah how do you know when to pry and do you

ever pry about it oh and how much do you pry? Yeah like like let's say you know yeah

you're just like hey what's up what's going on and they're like it's nothing it's

not worth talking about it's not it not, it's fine.

How do you know when to be, to press about it

and be like, no, what's going on?

Or do you always just, all right, fuck my this is something that's very basic that my dad that my father told me advice he gave me that I use for a lot of things but this is specifically for paying for a bill.

If you're in a group of people and let's say it's like two friends whatever and you're going to,

the bill comes, you're with a friend and you offer to pay.

And they say, no, no, no, I got it.

You say, are you sure? No, no, it I got it. You say, are you sure? Are you sure?

Let me get this one.

Like, no, it's fine.

If you ask twice and they still say no, leave it.

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