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Never let yourself be the victim.

If I could go back in time and have a conversation with my 8 to 10 year old self, that would be the message I would give.

Because when you think about it, you're a kid, things don't go your way. What do you do? You cry. You whine. You throw a fit. You want your parents to feel sorry for you. You feel sorry for yourself.

It's how you deal with things at that age. And then you grow up, but you don't necessarily shed that habit, that mentality. And it becomes obvious, right?

I mean, you can talk to someone for 30 seconds,

and you know right away if they have that victim mentality,

the world's falling down, they're tired,

they have so much to do, they're so busy, X, Y, and Z.

Look, having that mindset does two things for you. One, it makes you come across helpless and weak,

and no one wants to come across that way. Two, it does not get you to where you're going. It does not

change the situation. Right? Here's the reality. There is always a way to get what you want.

There is always a way to position yourself to move away from what you don't want.

You can quite literally become what you want to become, but you cannot look at life like it's this problem, like it's against you.

The ball is in your court. You know, it wasn't that long ago, two, three years ago, that I was not the happiest guy in the world right did not

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