brought to you by the every dollar app start budgeting for free today uh i feel really broken um

i have acquired some personal loans credit cards and medical bills that my husband is not aware of

they total in about 60 000 900900,000 a lot dollars.

I really don't know how to confront him about it, and I guess I need to know what my next

steps after I would do that would be.

It's pretty scary, yeah. Yeah, what happened along the way?

Well, we've been married.

It'll be 29 years this May.

I'm 50 years old.

I'll be 50 on March the 23rd.

This happened one other time that I had got some credit cards,

and it was in 2012.

The quantity of that was $7,774.

We bought a home in 2000, and we ended up refinancing it in the 2012, and we were able to get that caught up.

He was upset, but this time the quantity is much more.

Unfortunately, I met a, well, fortunately, I had met one of your preferred coaches back in 2017,

and I wanted to get finances in order, not live paycheck to paycheck.

And at the time, I didn't have any credit card bills.

Just had a few loans.

And I feel like my husband has neglected some of the emotional support that he should give.

And so the coach has said, you know, you need to be a team.

Your husband should come.

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