Hey, welcome back. As you know, this podcast is for the therapist, the coach, the natural

born helper. It's for you if you want to help people effectively. All right, how do I get in

there with people, specifically around their relationships? And we have 500-something episodes on how to help you if you're a

client. And now we've transitioned to how do we help you if you're a practitioner? How do we

help those people get results that want to have awesome, amazing, deep, fulfilling relationships.

And in this episode, I've got my friend Alexander Solomon,

who's been an ambassador here at the Relationship School for years.

She's been on, I think this will be her third time on the podcast.

And she is just full of wisdom. I'm just going to read a couple things about her so uh she

was the one who taught relationships 101 at northwestern university and now she has a her own class

called relationships 101 she's written for psychology today. She has several books,

which I've interviewed her on. She's one of the people I love who talk about relational

self-awareness. And she's been in the trenches working with people for about 30 years.

She's a parent. She's still married. And she is a wise woman.

So we're going to break it down. How do we help people? And we cover some important things like

how to work with a man in couple therapy, how to deal with your own countertransference,

what individuals are coming in for these days, needing help around, and how do we help people most effectively, you know?

All right, I think you're going to enjoy this one. Be sure to share with a friend, a colleague.

Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

And thanks again for being a subscriber and listener. Here we go.

Welcome back, Alexander Solomon.

Thanks so much for having me, Jason. Yeah, I love, I love being in conversation with you,

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