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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Therapist Convinces Client To Divorce

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.51.3K Ratings

🗓️ 16 February 2026

⏱️ 96 minutes

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Summary

Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. February 16, 2026

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.

00:00 How do you know a therapist is a hack?
02:36 Hannah's therapist red flags
21:51 Is it OK to make mistakes as a therapist? 
36:40 Understanding personality & online nonsense

1:28:24 Was the client's autonomy violated? 

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0:00.0

So, Bob, I'm working on a mini deep dive on the signs that your therapist is a hack.

0:07.1

Oh.

0:07.5

And in preparation for that, I thought we would read some emails in which therapists might be, or might not be hacks.

0:15.6

Interesting.

0:16.4

Do you know what I mean by a therapist being a hack?

0:19.4

Oh, I think I got a sense of that, yeah.

0:21.1

What would you define it as?

0:23.8

Well, probably somebody thinks they know what they're doing.

0:26.1

It turns out they don't.

0:27.6

And they think they're doing a good job and they aren't.

0:32.1

And their clients have complaints about them that they're unaware of.

0:35.9

And they keep on pushing the same old

0:38.0

line because you know i don't know what maybe it's like self uh aggrandizement or something i don't know

0:45.2

well yeah i i think there are many factors i think the most prevalent fact prevalent factor is

0:52.6

the blind leading the blind on TikTok that you have therapists and

0:58.6

you know before there was TikTok we would just talk amongst ourselves blind leading the blind

1:03.2

I can't tell you how many times I was led astray regarding what ethics what was ethical

1:08.8

and what was legal because most therapists just talk amongst themselves

1:14.2

and like someone who just seems very confident in themselves will just speak out and say this is

1:18.9

unethical and then it just gets spread throughout your circle and then you actually talk with a lawyer

1:24.2

an expert or a judge and they'll nope, you don't know what you're

1:29.0

talking about, or, you know, an legal or, you know, an expert, academic in that area. And they'll

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