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🗓️ 17 December 2025
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What would you do if a classic film scene held a blueprint that could dramatically elevate how others respond to you? Darren Hardy uses a powerful example to highlight a principle that reshapes how influence actually works. You may never approach conversations the same way again.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Darren Daly on demand, your most trusted resource to help you become better every day. |
| 0:07.3 | Here's your success mentor, Darren Hardy. |
| 0:13.4 | Okay, let's talk about the Wolf of Wall Street here for a second. Do you remember the scene where |
| 0:18.2 | Leonardo DiCaprio as Jordan Belford is teaching his sales team how to pitch? |
| 0:23.3 | Picture it. He holds up a pen and says, sell me this pen. And one by one, his team fumbles. |
| 0:30.1 | They start listing features. It's sleek. It writes smoothly. It's reliable. It's got great grip. |
| 0:38.2 | But they're missing the point entirely. |
| 0:40.7 | Then Jordan gives it to one of his top sales guys who he knows knows how to persuade. |
| 0:45.1 | And here's what's brilliant. The top salesperson, he doesn't talk about the pen at all. |
| 0:49.7 | Instead, he creates a need. He asks the person to write their name down on a napkin. When they can't, |
| 0:55.4 | because they don't have a pen, he sells it to them. On necessity of what it is that he's offering. |
| 1:01.9 | Now, let me be crystal clear here, okay? I'm not advocating for Jordan's ethics here. The man was, |
| 1:08.4 | as it ended up being, a criminal, a fraud, a manipulator. |
| 1:11.1 | But that scene, it perfectly illustrates a fundamental truth about impactful communication. |
| 1:15.9 | It's not about features. |
| 1:17.2 | It's not about what it is that you're actually selling. |
| 1:19.5 | It's about the problem you're solving, the need that you're fulfilling, the transformation |
| 1:24.3 | that you're offering. |
| 1:25.6 | And here's where most high achievers completely |
| 1:28.1 | sabotage themselves. In your professional life, too often we communicate like those |
| 1:33.9 | rookie salesmen. Let's take your last job interview. Did you spend time listing your |
| 1:38.4 | accomplishments, your degrees, your certifications, I have an MBA, I've increased sales by |
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