The Why Series: Why do I go on date after date and none of them lead to anything?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Sexuality, Social Sciences, Relationships, Science, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 5 July 2017

⏱️ 3 minutes

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Summary

Introducing 'The Why' Series, where we answer some of the top listener questions and dating conundrums. The first question: Why do I go on date after date and none of them lead to anything? One of the most frustrating parts of dating is when none of them seem to go anywhere. You may be the master of the first, second, or even third date, but have trouble turning any of them into a real relationship. Don’t worry – you aren’t alone! We’ll deep dive into 5 different reasons why this may be happening and leave you with suggested actions of what to do next. We’ll give you answers and actionable takeaways based on learnings from past Date/able guests, our own personal experiences, and general observations. You’ll get over an hour of material, which includes hacks and ways to counteract the reasons this may be happening. For the price of a cup of coffee, you can get some real answers! Join the conversation now to hear more and learn ‘why’ to this common dating conundrum. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The Datable Podcast is hosted by me, I'm UA, a former dating coach in New York turned active
0:08.2	dater in San Francisco.
0:10.3	On each episode you'll hear commentary by my producer Julie Craft Chick and other surprise co-host.
0:20.0	Hey you guys, U.A. and Julie here for the dateable podcast so this is not a normal
0:26.8	episode we are in the off-season we just finished season four and we're ramping up for season five we have some really good
0:34.5	stuff coming for you guys but in the off season Julie and I will be doing a series
0:39.6	called the dateable Y series and basically we're going to answer all those
0:46.1	dating questions and conundrums that you guys have written in about so we get
0:52.1	about I don't know, like a few dozen messages a day.
0:56.5	About or more than that? Leastic, yeah. Dating questions, dating
1:01.6	conundrums, why is this happening to me, why am I experiencing this?
1:05.4	What we've done is we've looked back at all of our four seasons and we've used these episodes to answer some of these questions and also using our own personal experience and observations.
1:19.0	So we think about this as crowd-source dating advice where we're going to help each other. So some of these
1:25.2	questions would be, why do I go on so many dates and none of them lead to something?
1:31.2	Why can't I meet people that I'm attracted to? Why do I keep
1:34.6	getting ghosted on? That one comes up all the time, yep. Why can't I meet people in
1:40.3	real life? Why can't I get someone to commit? Why can't I take something to the
1:44.8	next level? That's a huge one. A DTR one. I think what's interesting is we see a
1:49.1	ton of the same types of questions which means that everyone has similar issues and challenges that they're facing.
1:57.2	Okay, we're all in this together. So again, this is called the dateable Y series. We're going to have this on for our off season and it's going to be
2:05.9	premium content and we can't wait to stay in contact with you guys until we launch season
2:12.0	five. Yeah I mean we've obviously identified some
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