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The Daily Stoic

The Whiplash is Your Fault

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Education, 694393, Daily Stoic, Society & Culture, Stoic, Stoicism, Self-improvement, Business, Stoic Philosophy, Philosophy, Ryan Holiday

4.64.7K Ratings

🗓️ 14 September 2021

⏱️ 4 minutes

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Summary

Ryan discusses how much control you have over your response, on today’s Daily Stoic Podcast.

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Welcome to the Daily Stoke Podcast, where each day we bring you a passage of ancient

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wisdom designed to help you find strength, insight, and wisdom every day life.

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The Whiplash is your fault. It felt like things were heading in the right direction, like things

0:41.4

were finally getting better. Not just right now with the pandemic or the political situation,

0:47.0

but on so many other occasions in our lives. When we went through what we thought was the

0:53.4

hardest part of a situation and figured that, of course, we would be over soon. That, of

1:00.0

course, things would go back to normal to the way that they used to be. Did that happen?

1:06.6

Does that ever happen? No, it does not. James Stockdale was once asked,

1:12.8

who struggled the most in the famous Hanway Hilton? Oh, that's easy, he said. It was the

1:19.3

optimists. Dr. Edith Inger, on the DailyStoke podcast with me, talked about a campmate in Auschwitz

1:27.4

who was convinced they'd be rescued by Christmas. On that day, when the liberation did not come,

1:33.8

her friend died of a broken heart. This situation that we're in right now, it's not our fault.

1:40.2

We didn't cause the pandemic. We didn't ask for this miserable period at work. We're not the ones

1:45.9

who prescribed six to eight weeks of recovery for the injury that was a freak accident.

1:51.0

And nor is it our fault if this drags on longer than predicted or something else happens on top

1:57.4

of what has already occurred. But, Aestheok doesn't make things worse with optimism. That is fixate on

2:06.0

conditional hopes about things that are outside of our control. Instead, we settle in. We are

2:12.3

comfortable with discomfort. We make the most of this moment in front of us. That's a lifetime

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