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So, today I want to begin with, this is just my opinion, which you don't come from my opinion,

but this part is just my opinion. I want to begin with what I think is the most important,

one of the most important, one of the most catalytic relational dynamics that goes under the radar

that's pretty much I feel like sometimes overlooked by humankind. So, one of the most

most important, catalytic relational dynamics that is at play every single day in our lives,

and most of our conversations, but we're not aware of it. So, I want to surface it,

make you aware of it because this is a game changer when we can keep this front and center.

So, here it is, I made this up, it's a little clunky, and I'm going to read it twice,

and then I'm going to talk about it, and it's basically this idea. The relationship you have

with others is rarely the same relationship they have with you. The relationship, I see the

confusion, I know, I'm going to go slow, okay, and I was trying to figure out how to make this

clear, but anyway, I'm going to illustrate a minute. The relationship that you have with others,

all the people in your life is rarely, sometimes it's the same, but it's rarely the same relationship

they have with you. In other words, you are in a relationship with a lot of people,

but it's rarely the same relationship. And the best way to illustrate it is parent-child

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