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Pour Minds Podcast

The Way Love Goes ft. Da Brat and Judy

Pour Minds Podcast

The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

Comedy

4.83.1K Ratings

🗓️ 6 February 2026

⏱️ 94 minutes

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Summary

This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with Da Brat and Judy for a real, funny, and emotional conversation about how their love story actually happened!

They break down the first time they met, how Judy shot her shot at the studio, and the moment Brat realized she was catching real feelings. The couple gets into the miscommunication that almost kept them apart, including the infamous Atlanta flight with no answer, the ghosting, and the relationship Judy had that made Brat realize she might’ve lost “the one.” From stalking Instagram to finally reconnecting, they tell the full story of how they found their way back to each other.

Brat and Judy also open up about marriage, motherhood, and how having their son changed their relationship. They get real about their IVF journey, the genetic testing process, the backlash they faced over choosing a sperm donor, and the health scare that landed Judy in the hospital with blood clots. The conversation goes deep into what it really takes to build a family, protect your peace, and make hard decisions in public.

Plus, Judy talks her entrepreneur bag — from TikTok Live selling and e-commerce pressure to how the economy has changed how people buy — while Brat keeps it honest about work-life balance, boundaries, and not wanting to work 17 hours straight.

And of course, Ty sets the vibe with a custom cocktail called “The Way Love Goes” in honor of their book, while the room stays full of laughs, real talk, and classic Pour Minds chaos.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is an I-Heart podcast.

0:02.5

Guaranteed Human.

0:04.9

1969, Malcolm and Martin are gone.

0:07.8

America is in crisis.

0:09.5

At a Morehouse college, the students make their move.

0:12.3

These students, including a young Samuel L. Jackson,

0:15.4

locked up the members of the board of trustees, including Martin Luther King's senior.

0:20.6

It's the true story of protests and rebellion in black American history that you'll never

0:24.9

forget.

0:25.9

I'm Hans Charles.

0:26.9

I'm Mena Lake Lemoombo.

0:28.1

Listen to the A building on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your

0:33.5

podcasts.

0:34.7

When segregation was a law, one mysterious black club owner, Charlie Fitzgerald, had his own

0:40.2

rules.

0:41.2

Segregation and the day integration at night.

0:44.3

It was like stepping on another world.

0:46.7

Was he a businessman?

0:48.1

A criminal.

0:49.6

A hero.

0:50.8

Charlie was an example of power.

0:53.8

They had to crush him.

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