The Waves: Are “Cool Moms” A Menace?
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🗓️ 2 February 2023
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
On this week’s episode of The Waves, Slate senior editor Rebecca Onion is joined by NPR political reporter Danielle Kurtzleben to unpack all the fears that come with pending motherhood. They unpack Danielle’s brilliant Substack piece, “A Professional Lady Correspondent Stares Down Motherhood,” their fears of “cool moms” and…the possible merits of ”lean in feminism.” Heavy emphasis on the possible.
In Slate Plus, how Danielle navigated covering abortion post-Roe while pregnant.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Waves Slates Podcast about gender, feminism, and fretting over impending |
| 0:21.4 | the trussence. |
| 0:23.3 | Every episode you get a new pair of feminists to talk about the thing we can't get off |
| 0:26.6 | our minds. |
| 0:27.6 | Hey, you've got me, Rebecca Anya, a senior editor at Slate. |
| 0:32.4 | So my daughter just had her six birthday, and I was thinking about how before I became |
| 0:37.2 | a mother, I thought about it for about five years before going ahead and deciding to do |
| 0:41.6 | it. |
| 0:42.6 | And so in the course of that, I had a lot of conversations about it with friends who were |
| 0:45.8 | parents, friends who weren't. |
| 0:47.8 | I made a lot of Google documents. |
| 0:50.4 | I wrote about my fears around division of labor for Slate.com and other places. |
| 0:56.0 | I made pro and conless. |
| 0:57.4 | I tried to talk to my husband about many, many possibilities, which he was mystified by, |
| 1:02.2 | frankly. |
| 1:03.5 | One time I remember I was talking to a friend who was turned out to be the first one in our |
| 1:07.4 | friend group to have kids, a totally lovely woman, a great mom, whose son also kept me |
| 1:12.9 | up all night at one tightly packed house party, super overstimulated crying about wanting |
| 1:19.6 | iPad at light two in the morning. |
| 1:21.6 | He is now a preteen and he's absolutely wonderful. |
| 1:24.4 | Anyway, I ran to this friend about all the things that I love doing that I worried becoming |
| 1:28.1 | a mom would take away from me. |
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