The Unspoken Rules of Black Family Loans | MiniPod
Native Land Pod
iHeartPodcasts and Reasoned Choice
4.8 • 3.5K Ratings
🗓️ 2 January 2026
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
What do you do when family members ask you for money? It can become a real problem, particularly if you’ve “made it” in their eyes. On this week’s MiniPod hosts Tiffany Cross and Andrew Gillum navigate money and family.
This episode is a rerun that originally aired on 09-26-25.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 0:02.6 | Guaranteed Human. |
| 0:04.3 | Welcome home, fam. |
| 0:05.7 | Today's episode is a rerun of a mini pod that where me and Andrew recorded, I think this was back in September, about black family loans, y'all, especially around the holidays. |
| 0:15.1 | You know how it is when your family hits you up and say, well, your nephew needs or your needs needs or you know, big mama needs. |
| 0:21.6 | So we hope this episode helps you navigate some of those family conversations you might be having. |
| 0:27.9 | NativeLand Pod is a production of IHeart Radio and partnership with Reason Choice Media. |
| 0:33.2 | Welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome. |
| 0:38.7 | Welcome home, y'all. |
| 0:40.7 | We are here with this week's mini pod. |
| 0:52.1 | And I know you all are going to find it's relatable because Andrew had the great idea to talk about money, specifically loaning money to family and friends. And when you start making money and you become the person like JJ want to go to |
| 0:57.0 | prom and he got money for his tugs and Renee want to go to the dance and she needs money |
| 1:02.7 | for her dress and all those things. |
| 1:04.4 | We certainly have been through that collectively. |
| 1:07.2 | So Andrew, what made you want to talk about this? |
| 1:09.4 | No, I, you know, I came across this clip and I thought it was like quite something to hear a very, very, very, very rich woman share this problem that a lot of us common folks also encounter. |
| 1:24.5 | And I just, I just wanted to see if our audience might relate similarly to how this particular person deals with lonely money to family members. |
| 1:36.8 | Check it out. |
| 1:37.9 | Because not everybody knows her. |
| 1:40.0 | That's my only. |
| 1:42.0 | This, |
| 1:42.9 | the voice that you're going to hear if you're on the listening side is Melanie Hobson, who... Melody Hopson. Melody, I'm sorry, I say Melanie. You can have a dean in your name all day if you were Melody. And I'm going to say Melanie. A lot of people do that. But she's... I don't know. We know her, but a lot of people, like, may not actually know her. |
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