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Coach Corey Wayne

The Unperturbable Man

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6532 Ratings

🗓️ 13 May 2021

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

The importance of becoming the unperturbable man who is always centered, masculine, indifferent and calm.


In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a twenty-eight year-old woman who is a self described alpha female who is about to graduate and become a doctor of Psychology. She met a guy recently who is a med student. Because she asked some high-quality questions, she discovered some major red flags that he was abrasive, hurtful and emotionally abusive towards his ex who had cheated on him and was also a compulsive liar. She wonders if the conflict they have sometimes is because she is too masculine and not as submissive as she could be. The reality is that she is dating a man who is stuck living in the past, lacks emotional self-control and is too easily perturbable. She asks my opinion.


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Transcript

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0:01.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter.

0:04.7

And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be the Unperturbable Man.

0:09.6

So I've got an email actually from a woman today.

0:13.3

She's a psychology major.

0:15.8

She says in a year she's about to graduate and become a doctor of psychology, obviously an avid follower

0:22.6

and fan of my work. And so she recently met a guy who had been with a woman who was very

0:29.3

submissive, but she apparently was a compulsive liar and had cheated on him. And so it's kind of

0:36.3

creating some problems since they started dating because he's stuck living in the past and assuming or he presupposes that this new woman he's saying, which obviously the one who wrote the email, that she's going to be just like the X and do those same kinds of things.

0:56.3

And on top of that, because she asked good high quality questions, because the quality of

1:00.9

your life and all of your relationship is in direct proportion to the quality of the questions

1:05.8

that you consistently ask yourself, your teammates, and your partner.

1:11.6

And so because she asked good quality questions,

1:13.6

she found out he also admitted that he was emotionally abusive,

1:19.6

verbally abusive towards his ex.

1:23.6

So obviously you can imagine that's a major red flag.

1:28.3

So in other words, this guy is given a lot of signs off that he is very perturbable.

1:33.3

In other words, he loses it when he gets up, he gets mad, instead of remaining calm and taking in all the information so he can make a rational decision

1:47.0

because we're going to make our best decisions when we're in a peaceful and relaxed state.

1:52.0

So I got a quote that I wrote and we'll go through her email.

1:57.0

And the quote says,

1:59.0

The unperturbable man is a man who is sure of himself, calm, indifferent to chaos, and exercises emotional self-control.

2:08.6

Exercising emotional self-control when angry or upset is the definition of masculinity.

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