The Uncomfortable Truth About Why You and Your Partner Struggle to Communicate | Relationship Theory

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🗓️ 9 July 2021

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Are you and your partner struggling to have a deep and meaningful level of communication? Have emotions taken over your conversations and you can’t seem to achieve a break through? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they share their key communication techniques they find the most effective towards having a strong and healthy relationship. They discuss how they navigate moments of sticky communication, how emotions can skew your mind, the importance of being vulnerable with your partner, why you sometimes need to let your partner go crazy, how to help your partner during emotional times, why it’s always on you to improve, and how to learn from your past. SHOW NOTES: Communicate | Lisa and Tom share how they navigate sticky moments of communication. [0:31] Emotional | Lisa and Tom discuss how little things over time can influence your emotions. [3:39] Sanity Check | Tom reveals how Lisa keeps him from going too far into something. [7:20] Vulnerable | Lisa and Tom reveal the importance of being open with each other. [9:21] Crazy | Tom and Lisa reveal why you sometimes need to let your partner go all out. [11:38] Help | Lisa and Tom discuss how to help your partner during emotional times. [15:36] It’s on You | Tom and Lisa reveal why at the end of the day, it’s on you to step up. [16:59] Your Past | Lisa and Tom reveal why learning from the past is crucial to growth. [18:20] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:51.4	What up guys. In case you don't know, me and my hubby, Tom Billu,
0:55.7	have been together for 20 years and going on 19 years of marriage. And so we have a show
1:02.1	called Relationship Theory where we literally sit and talk about the no BS things of what's allowed
1:08.0	us to make this relationship actually work and to be sustained for this
1:12.4	length of time. So we've taken those guys and we've sliced them up into nuggets of relationship
1:18.0	gold and I'll be posting them on Women of Impact podcast weekly. And to kick it off,
1:22.9	I want to start with talking about the uncomfortable truths about why you and your partner struggle
1:29.5	to communicate. So ask yourself this, are you and your partner struggling to have a deep and
1:34.7	meaningful level of communication? Have emotions taken over your conversation where literally
1:39.4	neither of you can get a word in or agree on anything? Well, if you've ever been there, this episode of
1:45.8	relationship theory, Tom and I sit down and have the hard but honest discussion as we share
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