If you are a girl, a tween, all you want is like just another girlfriend to hang around with that is a good looking boy.

That is so, you've never said anything more poignant because I will tell you one of the

greatest moments of my life that was such a parallel of my life right now with you my life with my friendships with my girls because I love my husband and he's he's my like my legal best friend but you can't replace your like girlfriends like that thing you have.

And I will tell you when I was in second grade, Jason Dubas told me he's like, I like you and I like Lynn and the only way I can choose between who I should be

boyfriends to is if you guys race and Lynn and I are like all right like started off like how you

Mark gets said go and we get like halfway around the playground and we're like

fuck this let's just be best friends and we like I I thought that was such an important moment in my life because I thought oh my God like your your girlfriends are a

relationship that will literally get you out of the hardest times of your life and I figured it out in second

grade and it's you're right like you want the the boyfriend that you have you should want the boyfriend you have to be a

boy a best friend that you have had that is such good advice Jen