A young woman reflects on the media being created for her generation.

I think that there is an artificial perception of love being given in those movies and in the books.

And I think it's just very deceiving because that's not how relationships are.

And love in the movies is always like physical or something emotional that really, you know,

pricks our girl hearts.

Like, oh, he sang a song.

Oh, he wrote a letter.

Oh, he came after her.

And that's not necessarily love.

This is the Revivar Hearts podcast with Nancy DeMoss-Walgamuth, co-author of Lies Young Women Believe, for February 7, 2018.

This week, we're hearing from Nancy DeMoss-Waglmuth and Dana Gresh.

They just released the revised and updated version of the book

Lies Young Women Believe and the truth that sets them free. You know, it wasn't that long ago

that for a parent to get on top of a young person's media use meant, I need to restrict how

much television my child watches. Today, the media landscape changes faster than any of us can keep up with.

It's moved from the living room to the laptop to the phone or other internet-connected devices.

It would be easy to assume that today's young people are generally clueless about the values they're being fed in the

media. Not exactly, says Dana Grash. Well, the frightening thing is that they do see the danger,

but they're not convinced they need to do anything about it. One of our top lies in the area of

media was that the benefits of constant media use outweigh the harm.

And almost 100% of the girls, 98% of them, said, yes, I am making some media choices that clearly are not good for my spiritual life.

They affect my relationship with God.

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