The Truth About Lying
Breakpoint
Colson Center
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🗓️ 16 June 2023
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Summary
Several years ago, a New York Times headline read, "Is Your Child Lying to You? That's Good." Parents, the author said, shouldn't be upset about their young fibbers because studies show that kids who lie are more intelligent and "socially adept" than those who don't.
And for children who aren't quite so good at lying, parents can "speed up the process" through training exercises. If, as the author claims, lying is good for your brain, then the sooner kids start lying, the better.
I wish I were making that up, but I'm not. The author's argument is fully consistent with a worldview that sees cognitive ability as the highest quality we should value and cultivate in children.
But cognitive intelligence isn't the only kind. There's also moral intelligence—knowing the right thing to do in a morally charged universe. And there's relational intelligence—knowing how best to live in relationship with others, for their good, not just our own.
And never forget, "studies" and "research" are never neutral . . . .
This Point was originally published on January 19, 2018.
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| 0:00.0 | With a woman to look at culture from a Christian worldview, I'm John Stone's tree with a point. |
| 0:04.7 | Several years ago, a New York Times headline read, |
| 0:06.8 | "'Is your child lying to you? That's good.' |
| 0:08.8 | Parents said the author shouldn't be upset about their young fibres because studies show |
| 0:12.4 | that kids who lie are more intelligent and more socially adept than those who don't. |
| 0:16.4 | For children who aren't quite so good at lying, parents can actually speed up the process |
| 0:20.0 | through training. If, as the author claims, lying's good for your brain, and the sooner the |
| 0:24.1 | kids start, the better. Okay, I wish I were making that up, but I'm not. The author's arguments |
| 0:28.4 | fully consistent with a worldview that sees cognitive ability as the highest quality we should |
| 0:33.1 | value and cultivate in kids, but cognitive intelligence isn't the only kind. There's also |
| 0:37.7 | moral intelligence, knowing what's right and what's wrong, and existing in a morally charged |
| 0:42.1 | universe. And there's also a relational intelligence, knowing how best to live in relationship with |
| 0:46.9 | others, and to do so for their good and not just our own." |
| 0:50.4 | But never forget, studies and research are never neutral. They're loaded with worldview. |
| 0:56.3 | The Colson Center on John Stomstree. |
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