The Truth About Gold Diggers Every Guy Needs to Hear

The Unapologetic Man Podcast

Mark Sing

Dating, Seduction, Masculinity, Girlfriend, Women, Pua, Masculine, Education, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Nlp, Girls, Attraction, Self-improvement

4.8 • 1.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 July 2025

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, Mark Sing takes on the topic of gold diggers - how to avoid them, and why spending a lot of money on a first date can hurt your chances. Mark delves into the misconception that women are only interested in wealth and reveals how confidence, creativity, and emotional connection are far more important when building attraction. This episode is all about how to date smarter, not richer.

Mark Sing is a dating coach with a bold, no-nonsense approach to improving men’s lives. Known for his straightforward and masculine guidance, Mark teaches men how to build confidence, improve their dating lives, and navigate relationships with unshakable self-worth.

Key Takeaways:

Why spending a lot of money on a first date can backfire.
How to avoid attracting gold diggers in the first place.
The power of demonstrating confidence and emotional connection over flexing wealth.
Practical tips on how to handle gold diggers when they show up.
Low-cost or free date ideas that create genuine attraction.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] - Introduction: Overview of gold diggers and misconceptions.
[00:01:23] - Why the Lamborghini Videos are Fake: Debunking staged scenarios.
[00:03:47] - Lesson #1: Don’t Advertise Your Money: Avoid flaunting wealth.
[00:05:03] - How to Spot a Gold Digger: Identifying and handling them.
[00:06:03] - The Dangerous Cycle of Spending to Impress: Why it’s unattractive.
[00:07:07] - Handling the “Gold Digger” Situation: Flipping the script.
[00:09:33] - Real-Life Example: The Sunset Dinner Cruise: Story of overspending on a date.
[00:12:03] - The Power of Emotional Connection: Why it beats spending money.
[00:13:19] - Low-Cost and Creative Date Ideas: Fun dates that build attraction.
[00:14:27] - The Importance of Consistency in Dates: Repeating simple dates shows confidence.
[00:15:49] - Final Thoughts on Gold Diggers and Spending: Focus on genuine attraction.
[00:17:23] - Conclusion: Final reminder to not overspend on dates.

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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

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Transcript

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0:00.0	All this bullshit you see is absolute crap.
0:02.5	So have you guys ever seen these videos on YouTube and Instagram where these chicks are approached by this beta cut guy?
0:08.3	She completely blows him off.
0:09.8	And then he walks over to a Lamborghini and she's like, oh, you have a Lamborghini?
0:13.6	I didn't realize me.
0:14.6	You know what those videos are?
0:15.7	100% unequivocally fake.
0:19.9	I have yanked gold diggers and I didn't give him a fucking penny.
0:23.6	Women are attracted to a man who yes has resources but doesn't shoot them all over her face thinking it's going to get him laid.
0:30.6	You can lock me in a padded room with the chick.
0:32.6	We'll joke around and thank God that place is padded because we're going to need those pads when we have crazy butt naked monkey sense.
0:40.9	Welcome to the unapologetic man podcast.
0:44.3	The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being
0:49.3	a man without making any apologies for it.
0:57.0	What is up, gentlemen?
0:59.0	Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP.
1:01.0	And today, boys, we are going to talk about gold diggers, how to avoid them, and how to go on dates for much less than you think you have to spend.
1:09.0	And I'm going to tell you why it is that spending a lot of money on a first date is actually a bad idea. It's going to actually make her lose attraction for you. So make sure to stay tuned until the very end. Got a ton of content to drop in your laugh, boys. Let's get into it. So first of all, gold diggers. Have you guys ever seen these videos on YouTube and Instagram where these
1:27.9	chicks are approached by this kind of like beta cut guy and he's like, hey girl, how are you? And she completely blows him off. And then he walks over to a Lamborghini and she's like, oh, you have a Lamborghini? I didn't realize. And he's like, well, what about earlier? You blew me out. She's like, ah, don't worry about that.
1:25.1	Guys, you know what those videos are?
1:27.0	100% unequivocally fake.
1:30.2	F. earlier, you blew me out. She's like, ah, don't worry about that. Guys, you know what those videos are?
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