You're either building his kingdom or you're building a different kingdom.

And you talk about that a lot so.

Yeah, so it's like, yeah, your own kingdom.

You could think it's all great because everybody says build your brand, you know,

focus on your business. and even to a degree if you're only focused on your family and you

neglect God, you're making your family your idol and your God.

Oh, yeah.

And so it becomes this thing where people think they're doing the right thing,

because that's what the world or society says,

but it's a trick because it's like, well, dude I guess what I would hope I'm not putting

my faith in my kids and my family and my business and how I look's in the bank. You know the moment you put your money or your

confidence and your faith in all of these temporary things. Yeah. It becomes

tough man. It goes like this. I feel like life Ryan I feel like life is a lot like a decathlon. And we look at social media and we see these guys that like crushed it in one or two or three events and we're like I want to be just like that guy.

And matter of fact, I'm going to get coached one-on-one by that guy. And matter of fact I'm going to get coached one-on-one by that guy and I've been one of these people and I've done

exactly what it is these mentors have told me to do and I've gotten the fruit in in my life in those

areas that I've wanted but because they weren't holistic men,

some of the events of life, like my relationship with God, my relationship with my wife, I wasn't even

like showing up at all, right? Not cheating, not like beating, but not showing up, like not even showing up to the event. When I say not even showing up to the event, I mean like a year without a date night. I mean six

months without going to church. I mean no spiritual leadership, no leadership at all

right? Just like making tons of money working seven days a week and I was a

decathlete in college and I was school I went to University of Illinois

school record holder all conference in like the first season that I did it but the reason that I was good Ryan because I actually got a scholarship for football

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