The Top 5 Reasons WE DON'T HIT ON GIRLS! Don't Be "The Creepy Guy!!!"
The Unapologetic Man Podcast
Mark Sing
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 16 December 2024
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
Men have a tendency to want to be direct, immediately telling women they're attractive and trying to secure the date. They find this creepy, and it's not going to get you the results you're looking for.
You don't know anything about her yet. What you need to do is build attraction naturally by providing value, and also letting her prove to you that she's actually worth your time.
This might seem counterintuitive at first. So in today's episode, Mark explains this concept in detail by breaking down all the main reasons why being too direct will make you look like a creep and provides the correct (and super effective) ways you should approach women instead.
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| 0:00.0 | I've had friends, acquaintances, clients come up to me and be like, hey, how do I get that girl's |
| 0:05.1 | phone number over there? And the first thing I always say is, why do you want her phone number? |
| 0:09.4 | And they're like, look at her, man. She's beautiful. And I'll be like, so? That's one tick off of 10 |
| 0:14.6 | different boxes that she needs to tick. She needs to be interesting. She needs to be funny. She needs to be fun to talk to. She needs to have a good moral compass. What if her breath stinks? |
| 0:24.1 | I need to see that she's passing all the prerequisites that I have to make a girl my girlfriend. |
| 0:30.0 | And yes, to even ask for her phone number. So the mentality is, hey, there's a cute girl. |
| 0:35.4 | Let me go meet her and see if she makes the cut. |
| 0:39.1 | Welcome to the unapologetic man podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, |
| 0:45.0 | confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. |
| 0:57.8 | What is up, gentlemen? |
| 1:00.4 | Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. |
| 1:01.9 | I really do appreciate you. |
| 1:08.5 | And today, boys, we are going to talk about why we don't hit on women until they're attracted to us. |
| 1:11.6 | So many guys go into interactions with women, |
| 1:14.0 | just stating too much intention, bro, just being like, |
| 1:16.5 | you're so beautiful, I want to marry you. |
| 1:17.9 | Why is it that you're so gorgeous? |
| 1:19.1 | Why don't you have a boyfriend? |
| 1:21.7 | And they come off as fucking creepy. |
| 1:25.5 | How many of you guys are terrified of being labeled as creepy? |
| 1:28.5 | How many you guys are worried about what other people are going to think of you? This is exactly why in this program, as well as this podcast, we do not |
| 1:34.9 | hit on women until there are at least three to five solid signs that she's already attracted to us. |
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