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The Psychology of Eating Podcast

The Therapeutic Use of Food in Times of Grief or Loneliness – In Session with Marc David

The Psychology of Eating Podcast

Marc David

Nutrition, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.7586 Ratings

🗓️ 17 May 2023

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Food is so much more than just fuel for our bodies.

It's also a powerful connector. 

Food brings us together with family and friends, and allows us to express and receive love and appreciation, spark new relationships, create memories, discover and care for the world around us, and even navigate and explore our inner emotional and spiritual landscape.

Because food helps us feel connected, we may also reach for it in moments of disconnection, distress, isolation, and loneliness. We can turn to it for comfort, or for a sense of familiarity and reassurance.

And that's because of a foundational, biochemical truth for every human being on this planet: 

When we eat food, we feel better. 

As Marc David unpacks in this episode, using food to self-soothe and comfort ourselves isn't all bad. In fact, the conscious use of food to feel better can actually be beneficial.

Fifty-nine year old guest coaching client, Debra, endured the death of her late husband several years ago – and now finds herself again grieving the loss of a relationship – this time, a breakup. 

In response to her grief and sadness, Debra has noticed she's started eating compulsively in the evenings. And she feels ashamed of having gained some extra weight in recent months.

Follow their conversation, as Marc explores how the loss or absence of close relationships and social ties in our lives can mean we look to food to satisfy some of our most basic needs – and how, at different times in our life, that can be a therapeutic strategy.

🎧 Listen now to learn more about why eating for comfort or connections isn't shameful, and can actually be supportive in our healing journey – if we learn how to make it work for us, not against us. 

You'll hear how consciously seeking intimacy through food can ease the pain of isolation, while prioritizing social time in everyday life can help protect us from falling into future loneliness.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Psychology of Eating Podcast, where food and body challenges are the doorway into a happier, healthier life.

0:11.3

Now, here's your host, Eating Psychology Expert and founder of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, Mark David.

0:26.2

Thank you. Institute for the Psychology of Eating, Mark David. Welcome, everybody. I'm Mark David, founder of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating.

0:30.5

We are in the Psychology of Eating podcast, and I'm with Deborah today. Welcome, Deborah.

0:37.3

Thank you, Mark. So the idea here is you and I get with Deborah today. Welcome, Deborah. Thank you, Mark.

0:38.7

So the idea here is you and I get to do a session together

0:42.4

and see if we can move you forward.

0:46.9

So if you could wave your magic wand

0:49.2

and get whatever you wanted with food and body,

0:52.4

what would that be for you?

0:55.8

Yeah. Yeah.

0:59.3

I think definitely one thing would be that I would enjoy food more,

1:03.6

just enjoying the eating itself,

1:09.3

enjoying the taste of food, enjoying the slowing down and

1:13.8

feeling connected to food.

1:20.9

When it cuts to body, then it would be, I still have moments of shame and normally it's much, much less.

1:34.9

But recently I gained a little bit weight and I noticed, I was thinking about going dancing

1:39.2

and I was thinking, oh, I gained some weight, you know, people will see it.

1:43.1

And as I was getting ready for this

1:46.7

session I was thinking oh yeah that's how I was as a kid as a teenager I should say that's when

1:51.8

it started there's still that kind of a teenager there lingering wanting to look perfect

1:57.5

yeah so yeah so you'd want to feel more comfortable and good about your body look perfect. Yeah, so.

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