Nobody cares what you say desire or want if you are not applying appropriate consequences for

things that does not honor your request, period. If you're saying, hey, I want to go out on more

date nights and I want to go on more day nights and then you wait, you in the relationship for five

years not requiring the date nights nights nobody cares about what you say

you have to apply appropriate consequences for things that does not honor your desires so he's known

that i wanted to get married you never required that he can married you and people are well you can't

force somebody do nothing yes you can you can you can force them with your. Yes, you can. You can. You can force them with your boundaries.

You can force it with the things that you outline about what you want, right?

And so, yes, people are going to do what they want to do.

But what you allow is very important. Okay, y'all, welcome back to Dear Tasia. We are so excited. We have a couple subscription reminders. First of all, we want you to follow Deer to See a podcast on Apple and Spotify. This is very, very important. Follow on Apple and Spotify and leave a five-star review. Not two, not four, five. Okay. Five-star review because it looks like you all are enjoying

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our peanut gallery guest Courtney okay so I always tell y'all I love to talk about how I first met. If y'all don't know, like once upon a time, I did a show called Ready to Love is on own network. And Courtney is one of my castmates. And we've been locked to it ever since. And if y'all ever follow this show, some people just do the show and they, you know, move on, whatever.

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